We always seem to have an active social life when we come to Provence... actually much busier than our social calendar at home in Tennessee. We've made quite a few local friends-- some are French, some are expatriates who live here permanently, and some are regular visitors like us.
Sometimes we connect with friends at a restaurant, or we meet for a hike. We've been invited to friends' homes, and we also like to invite people here. This summer we decided we wanted to invite several of our local friends here for dinner, a way to thank them for everything they've done for us. We decided to do small dinners instead of mixing people up. This has been another high point of our summer in the Luberon.
It's an interesting challenge to prepare and host a meal for French friends or even for expats who have socialized to the French lifestyle. What to fix? The French truly are a culture that cares about food and doing things right, and it's easy for a relative newcomer like me to be intimidated. Although I feel very comfortable cooking French dishes for my American friends at home, I sure didn't want to flub a meal for our French friends by trying too hard to "be" French. Instead I decided that for each dinner I would prepare a more typical American meal but following the French pattern for a meal: aperitif, entree, main course, cheese, and dessert. Kelly was my assistant chef and handled the desserts on her own. I brought over a secret ingredient-- a big bottle of barbeque sauce-- that I planned to use in at least a few meals, creating a bit of a southern flair.
Our first visitors were Henri Tomas, his wife Rosa, and Rosa's sister Sylvia, visiting from Argentina. We had been invited to their home last summer. for a very special evening. This was an interesting multi-cultural experience because Henri doesn't speak really any English, Rosa speaks just a little English, and Sylvia speaks quite good English-- but no French... oh, and then our family's French is of varying proficiency. There was not one common language for all, so we conversed in a mix of French, English and Spanish.
Far beyond the language challenges, this meal ended up having the most challenges. It was too cool to eat outside, at the last minute the grill didn't work... and then we learned that Henri couldn't eat spicy food since it impacted his ability to taste the sweet delicacies in his patisserie. Fortunately I hadn't yet covered all the chicken in barbeque sauce and was able to saute two breasts in olive oil with some herbes de Provence. The rest of the chicken I ended up panfrying in olive oil and then sauteeing in barbeque sauce... quite an interesting variation actually. Henri then decided he could probably eat the barbeque sauce after all, mixed it with creme fraiche and poured it on his herbes de Provence chicken. We also had baked beans (not very good... difficult with the local ingredients) and corn-on-the cob. Henri and Rosa brought a tart for dessert, and Kelly served fresh fruit.

Henri, Sylvia, Rosa and Kelly
We've known Janice since we lived here and see her everything we visit. She hosts a cooking evening and dinner for our Luberon Experience groups and is a special part of our trips. She's had us to her home several times, and we've had her to ours. For this dinner I made a homemade blue cheese dressing and had salads with big beefsteak tomatoes and avocodo. Then we had marinated pork tenderloin (filet mignon de porc) on the now-working grill, served with barley and coco plat green beans. For dessert-- ice cream with framboises. I think the meal was just right. It's one of Kelly's favorites.

Dinner with Janice
Sophie is the assistant manager of one of the B&Bs where we have our Luberon Experience trips. She's from an old Bonnieux family and lives right next door to the house where we're staying. In fact, her family's home is about the only one we can see. She's been so helpful to us with our groups (she works incredibly hard), and she's a lot of fun too. Since she went to school and worked in Glasgow, her English is excellent. This was another barbequed chicken night, and I served my tomato/avocado/blue cheese salad again. I also fixed green beans and mashed potatoes with boursin cheese, one of my favorites.

The wonderful Sophie
Our friends Cynthia and Ian (who now live in Bandol) had to come to Bonnieux overnight this past Sunday, and we invited them to stay with us. We planned to have dinner here. One morning, earlier in the week, I was sitting on the back terrace (actually in my nightgown and a hiking shirt-- it was early), and a woman walked by on the hiking just above the house. I recognized that it was Ruthie, a very nice woman from Bonnieux I had met at the wine dinner at the Faverots. In one of those "small world of the Luberon" coincidences, it turned out she and her husband Vincent were good friends of Cynthia and Ian. I called to her from the terrace, and she came down for coffee and a visit, me stil in my nightgown and makeshift robe. She's originally from Austria (her family fled the Nazi regime) and she was raised mostly in Australia. Her husband Vincent is French, from another part of the Luberon. They've lived many places in the world, but have been here quite a long time. I invited them to join us for dinner with Cynthia and Ian, deciding to keep it a surprise.
We had a great evening, one that lasted from 7:30 until after 11. Kelly was a wonderful helper. She is really detail-orineted and creative in presenting the food and the table, and she's learning to cook too... all this time in France has given her a very good sense of these things. We had the tomato/avocado/blue cheese salad once again; a mix of barbeque and marinated chicken, rice, a bean salad, a saute of green and yellow courgettes; a cheese course (Vincent could identify every cheese); and one of Kelly's signature fruit and ice cream desserts.

Cynthia, Charley, Ruthie, Ian, Kathy, and Vincent (photo taken quite late in the evening by Kelly)
Our last dinner guests-- on Monday of this week-- were Eric and Michelle, owners of the other B&B we use for the Luberon Experience. They are really wonderful people-- he's from the French-speaking area of Switzerland and she's from Annecy, near Lake Geneva. We like them very much. Eric speaks English fluently from his years in the business world, but Michelle's English is about like my French. So with Kelly and Eric's help, we spoke a mix of English and French, and it was a chance for all of us to practice.
I had a great meal planned: melon and ham to begin; the marinated pork tenderloin, barley, bean salad and coco plat beans; cheese; and a Kelly dessert. Unfortunately, I had been feeling under the weather all day, going quickly downhill at the time they arrived. I had to excuse myself twice while we were drinking our aperitifs, and then I couldn't finish my melon. I managed to finish preparing the main course, but had to turn things over to Kelly while I went back upstairs. I never got back downstairs. I honestly couldn't function-- or move more than a few feet from the bathroom. I sent word via Kelly for them to continue and have a great time. Charley said Kelly was magnificent, a real hostess... she executed the rest of the meal perfectly.

Eric and Michelle (photo taken May 2008)
That was two days ago, and yes... I'm still a bit under the weather... though doing better today after some medicine from the pharmacy. Kelly and I are taking the TGV to Paris tomorrow morning, and then we fly home to the USA on Sunday. Charley will stay on here for a week until our friends return home, and then he'll travel on his own until I come back over in mid-September.
I haven't left the house in 2-1/2 days, and this definitely isn't the way I wanted to spend my last few days in Provence. But if I have to be sick, I guess I'd rather be here!

Comments (3)
Kathy - how are you feeling? Saw you weren't feeling well, hoping it's all better now. Where to next on the trip?
Posted by kimmer99
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August 8, 2007 3:23 PM
Posted on August 8, 2007 15:23
Hi:
Just came upon you site today and wanted to say hello. My wife and I have travelled to Provence many times and we were going to go in Sept. except that my shoulder had other ideas. We have stayed in the area near Lauris, Lourmarin and Bonnieux and know it well.
Get better soon.
John
Posted by oakvilleonca
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August 9, 2007 6:10 AM
Posted on August 9, 2007 06:10
Hope you're feeling better now, Kathy. You may have already left Provence by that time you read this. Have a wonderful stay in Paris, and a safe journey home. Talk to you soon!
Posted by teaberry
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August 9, 2007 4:50 PM
Posted on August 9, 2007 16:50