I was born in Munich, Germany.
Okay, I'm not really German and I speak only a little tourist German, but I've always loved saying that I was born in Germany. My young parents were American and I was born in a US Army hospital. My dad was a soldier in the US Army, stationed about 35 miles southeast of Munich. He was just 22 when I was born, and he and my mom (only 20) had been married almost two years. They had eloped just a few weeks after they met, much to my mother's parents horror.

My young parents before I was born
Not long after they were married, my dad was shipped overseas. My mom moved back with her parents for several months and worked to earn money to join Dad in Germany. They lived off-base in the village of Bad Aibling, about halfway between Munich and Salzburg. They didn't have any money really at all and rented a small apartment in a German woman's house. Instead of a crib, I slept in a wicker laundry basket.

Their best souvenir from living in Germany-- me!
My mother's father was a manager with Shell Oil. During the time my parents were living in Bad Aibling, before I was born, my grandfather also had a European job assignment, and he and my grandmother spent about six months in Amsterdam. My grandparents met up with my parents several times and took them around Bavaria and to Paris and Venice, maybe other places too. I think my grandparents paid all the bills, because otherwise it would have been very difficult to my parents to see much of Europe.

My parents in Venice. Notice my mom's maternity top-- this was my first visit to Venice too!
I don't have any memories of living in Germany because we moved to the USA before my first birthday. But I do have special memories of growing up in a house with parents whose lives and view of the world were shaped by those two years they lived in Europe. We learned German drinking songs, and our house was decorated with hummels and beer steins and some nice artwork my parents brought back. Every few months my dad would set up the slide projector and we would look at their slides of their travels, pictures of Paris and Neuschwanstein Castle, of the village of Bad Aibling, my young mother and father in Salt Miners clothes, baby me in the laundry basket. Later-- from when I was 8 until almost 13-- we had the opportunity to live in Melbourne, Australia because of my dad's work. (That's a good subject for another post.) I remember our four years in Australia well, and it's a big part of why I wanted to spend the extended time in Europe at a similar time in Kelly's life.
Because of my German birth and my parents experiences living in Europe, my dreams of going to Europe began when I was very young. It took me 35 years to finally get back, but once I had the chance to experience Europe, the burning ember turned into a flame!
I've always felt a strong connection to Munich, Salzburg and the Bavarian Alps. This area is so incredibly beautiful and there's a liveliness we enjoy too. But I know my connection is also related to my personal history. It's special to know that this is the area where I was born and this was where my parents lived in their early years of marriage. They have now been married 55 years and have traveled all over the world.
I've been to Munich five times as an adult, though I've never tried to find that Army hospital where I was born. I've stopped in at Bad Aibling three times over the years, to see the place where I lived when I was a baby, to show it to Charley and Kelly. My parents went back to Bad Aibling several years ago, and they said the house where they lived isn't there any more. The Bad Aibling station, the intelligence center for the National Security Agency where my dad was stationed, closed in 2004.
Today Bad Aibling is a pretty town of about 18,000 people. There's an ornate church with an onion-domed spire, painted buildings, and a "little Venice" area (called "Klein Venedig") where a river runs through the town. It's not a major destination for American tourists (except perhaps for people who were stationed at the base over some 50 years), but it is known for its spas, mineral baths and "peat pulp" baths. ("Bad" means "bath.") We've never stayed in Bad Aibling overnight, but sometime we should do this and experience a peat pulp bath!
Here are some photos from our last visit to Bad Aibling in 2005.




Comments (7)
Oh I love this post! The photos of your parents are fantastic! They looks so happy and it must have been a real treat at that time to experience so much of Europe (or to travel transatlantically at all, I guess.) Thanks for sharing!
Response to Chiocciola--
I'm so glad you enjoyed this post. My dad just celebrated his 75th birthday and I put together a pretty elaborate photo show that included some of those old photos. They were so young!!!!
Posted by Chiocciola | February 21, 2009 4:14 PM
Posted on February 21, 2009 16:14
What a wonderful post. Now I see you were born with travelling jeans er "genes!" Love the early photos and knowing the history of your parents beginnings...
Posted by Barb Cabot | February 21, 2009 11:39 PM
Posted on February 21, 2009 23:39
Small world! The only time I have been to Germany (just 3 days at the end of an Italy trip) was staying with a friend outside of Bad Aibling in 2000. She had a DOD job there (think you call it DOD job).
This was so much fun to read. I am sure your exposure as a child to your parents slides as well as their exposure to more than just the US influenced you quite a bit. Fun photos!!
Posted by girasoli | February 22, 2009 3:38 AM
Posted on February 22, 2009 03:38
Girasoli, we had a "small world" experience relative to Bad Aibling a few years ago. My mom, sister and I were antique shopping in Ellicott City, MD, the day after Thanksgiving. In the back of a big shop we found a set of six souvenir shot glasses-- from Bad Aibling! Of course we bought them. I've got one here on my desk.
The National Security Agency (NSA) is located in Maryland, not far from my "real" hometown of Laurel. My dad worked there for about 25 years, as did many of my friends' parents. Since the Bad Aibling station was tied to NSA, it isn't surprising really that someone would have brought something from Bad Aibling to this part of the USA. But it was still such fun to make this find!
Posted by kaydee | February 22, 2009 9:37 AM
Posted on February 22, 2009 09:37
This is a wonderful story, thank you for sharing. I was not born with those traveling "genes", so I had to grow up and find them, I guess. Wonderful pictures of your parents and the very young you - from the parent side now it must seem like your parents were even younger - I look at my daughter having a baby at 26 and think that she's so young - 20 would have blown my socks off.
Posted by Marcia | February 22, 2009 1:48 PM
Posted on February 22, 2009 13:48
Marcia, my parents were incredibly young: married at 18 and 20. My mom was only three years older than Kelly is now!
In contrast, I didn't have Kelly until I was 37 years old and Charley was 48.
(And the other contrast-- my mom is only 10 years older than Charley!)
Posted by kaydee | February 22, 2009 3:15 PM
Posted on February 22, 2009 15:15
Well to make it even a smaller world, I have stayed in Ellicott City, Maryland! My aunt and uncle (not by blood but good friends of my parents) lived there for years. I visited there when I was around 11. Doubt I was in that shop though :) That is amazing that they sold the glasses from Bad Aibling.
From Kathy
Ellicott City, Maryland is a great little town... lots of antique shops. So neat that you've been there!
Posted by girasoli | February 25, 2009 1:28 AM
Posted on February 25, 2009 01:28